Wednesday, July 9, 2014

Hunter High Performing Arts Tour Year 3






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I was invited to attend Hunter High Schools Performing Arts Tour to Disneyland again this year!  Yea!  So fun!!!!  We left at an insane hour of the morning Saturday, March 29, 2014 and headed south on a bus.  My BFF, Kjersti, and I were prepared for a week of fun and hopefully no drama (psh!  We were with teenagers....). 
We arrived in California with enough time to get pretty and head off to Medeival Times.  This year we were the cheering section for the Blue Knight... He didn't win, much to our chagrin.  But the evening was delightful and the food was delicious!


Sunday Kjersti planned for a more relaxing day since we were away from home and many students wanted to be respectful of the sabbath.  We spent the morning at the Getty Art Museum, it was magical.  I lost my group several times because I got so caught up in reading all the descriptions of the artwork.  I would love to go back someday and spend more time just reading and looking.



 Beautiful view!


BFFs!!!


 Matt and Daniel... Remember how I told you we were on a trip with teenagers?!

 This was the visiting exhibit while we were at the Getty.  I love Queen Victoria's story and loved seeing her pictures.  I would have enjoyed more time there.

 After the Getty we headed to the Santa Monica Pier for some relaxation, people watching, and sunshine.



Yea!  We love the ocean!
 

BFFs!
 



The students were able to catch these tiny crabs by digging for them.  They were catching tons of them.


Just like last year, several nutcases were out playing in the cold water.
 


The boys decided to start burying each other and seeing how long it took them to get out.  It kept them entertained for over an hour.  The chaperones even got involved.







 Seriously, this lady was so much fun to have with us!
 
 For once Kjersti and I were taller than one of the high school students.  That hasn't happened for a long time!
 

 One of my favorite pictures from the day.  I love Kjersti!  I love traveling with Kjersti!  I honestly can't imagine Disneyland without her.  I am blessed to have her in my life.
 
 Sunday evening we chose to continue the fun by entering California Adventure.  No Disney trip is complete without a stop at Earl Of Sandwich.  We highly enjoyed our delicious sandwiches before heading off to conquer some rides.
 Carsland.
 Tour buddies...  Josh, Kjersti, and me


We finished the night with ice cream from Ghiradeli.  YUM!  Little did we know how much we would need all the calories for energy.  This tour trip turned into one of our most memorable.  Nothing quite like traveling with teenagers.... 
 
 
 Monday was our first full day in the parks.  In normal Sarah and Kjersti fashion we wore our matching Snow White shirts from last year's trip. 
 




 Josh, me, and Kjersti on the Jungle Cruise!





Some of the girls had sweatshirts made for this tour.  Of course Kjersti ordered one for both of us.  Who could turn down a sweatshirt that says, "I'm 99.9% sure I'm a Disney Princess"?!
This brings us to the end of Day 1 in the Parks, and this is where the drama begins.  Remember that we were traveling with teenagers?  Well, Kjersti got a phone call from another chaperone- one of the students had passed out near the end of World of Color.  People from First Aid were there giving her fluids.  It had been a long, exciting day, everyone was tired, and we all believed that most likely she was dehydrated.  From this point on, this particular student will be know as "Fainter."  The stellar chaperone called a taxi to take the girl back to the hotel (a 10 minute walk from Disneyland) and Fainter was given strict instructions to go back and get some rest.
 
Tuesday morning while Kjersti and I were getting ready for the day (in matching t-shirts again, because we are just THAT awesome!) Kjersti's phone rang.  A student from our group was calling to ask Kjersti to come to her room.  Kjersti left for a bit and came back to inform me that this student had blisters on her feet from Monday.  Kjersti asked to see what shoes this student had worn and she was presented a pair of worn out tennis shoes with holes in the soles.  Kjersti asked if the student had any other shows and she showed her a nice pair of shoes specifically designed to be good walking shoes.  Um, HELLO!!  Kjersti gave student, who will now be known as "Blister" instructions to double up on socks, wear the nicer shoes, and go to First Aid when she got to Disneyland to get bandages, and if the day became to unbearable to think about renting a wheelchair.  A little insight into Blister....  She's a nice young lady, but doesn't have many friends.  She loves Disneyland, which is why she comes on tour, but she is often by herself, which is stricly against the rules.  She is slightly awkward.  The 2 students she had spent Monday with were boyfriend and girlfriend and had requested some time together in Disneyland on Tuesday.
 
Kjersti and I then made our way to the park to check in with all of our students.  Blister soon arrived and immediately went to rent a wheelchair.  Oh dear.  One of the other theatre students offered to hang out with Blister and then got stuck pushing Blister in her wheelchair.
 
Alas, Kjersti and I went about our day.  It had been determined that we would meet with a group of Theatre students to get a group picture on Tower of Terror.  The time came when it was time to meet and we got in line.  Blister arrived with her wheelchair, even though she wasn't a Theatre student, and went up with us.  This is where I will insert my dear Kjersti's words:
 
As we were waiting in line, Fainter started to pass out, luckily Blister had her wheelchair so we helped Fainter into it. She wasn't completely gone, but she went with another chaperone and waited at the end of the ride for the group to return.
When we met up with them in the gift shop, she was acting incredibly loopy (almost in a drunk-like state). But, there were two chaperones and she said she felt fine, so I left with Josh (the band teacher) and my friend Sarah and we went to ride Soarin'. After the ride I got a call from the chaperone saying that Fainter was acting really strange and could I come take care of things. So, I sent Josh and Sarah off to have some fun while I went to find out what was going on. When I arrived, the kids were all surrounding her and she was acting incredibly drunk. So, I sent the kids off, and I took Fainter with me. But, before I left- I asked my student, Matt if he would take care of Blister and if it got too annoying to text me and we would come get her.
So, I wheeled Fainter into the Anamation Academy building and within 30 seconds she was no longer acting like she was inebriated. We talked for about an hour and she shared with my some hardships going on in her life right now. I gave her some advice on how to deal with family stress and assure her that she is ok, and she needs to just breathe and have fun.
After about an hour anda half, she was feeling fine, so got some food in her, met up with her friends at Paradise Pier and sent her on her merry way as I reunited with my friends. Within a half hour the text had started again. She was passing out, acting drunk, the kids were freaking out... During this time, I had a lunch reservation at the Wine Country with the other directors and I was determined not to miss it. So I told the kids to keep her hydrated and take her to first aid if necessary. I was determined to enjoy my lunch.
No sooner had I ordered and received my salad when the floodgates of calls and texts came flooding in-"we've taken her to first aid", "she can't stand up", "I'm so scared, I don't know what to do", "they've called the paramedics, an ambulance is on it's way."
As soon as the ambulance had been called, I left my credit card with Sarah and booked it over to first
aid. Upon my arrival I saw a group of students, huddled, crying and consoling each other while a cast
member hurried me to the back where the ambulance was about to pull away. I quickly jumped in the front seat. While in the ambulance, I received a text from Matt asking me to come take care of Blister- I replied, "I can't I'm in an ambulance right now with Fainter on the way to the hospital." I then texted Sarah and Josh and asked them to take care of the Matt/Blister situation.
On the way to the ER, Fainter was having a jolly old time interacting with the medics. This is when I really starting questioning the validity of her fainting spells. But, I was totally calm, because what if there was something really wrong with her, I had to make sure. I also kept thinking about the hefty ambulance bill her family would be receiving... Disney had called the paramedics because they told her if. She couldn't make it from the chair to the bed on her own then she would go to hospital. Of course she couldn't.
At the hospital, they put her in a gown and hooked her to the machine to take her vitals. I asked the nurse how could she be dehydrated in 70 degree weather when she had been drinking water? He said that sometimes it's an electrolyte imbalance. Soon they took her blood, a urine sample and hooked her up to an IV full of fluid.
This whole time she was coherent and very aware of her surroundings. Again, I was quite suspicious, but was unsure. About an hour and a half in she asked me, "how long do we have to stay here?" I told her "as long as it takes." She replied, "oh." In the meantime, my phone was blowing up with concerned texts from students and texts from Sarah and my friend Jeff (who kept me same during the whole ordeal). She notices how often I am texting and she says, "are they all about me." I say, no only some are. I then ask her if I should send outa mass text to the group reassuring everyone that she is ok. She nods and I do this. Well, my phone is about to die and I text Sarah and ask her to help find us a ride home. (A few parents of the kids had come down separately from the group and had vehicles). And then my phone died.
I was in the ER for six hours total with this student. During this whole time we talked about a myriad of things from her struggles at home, to coping with stress, religion, and she informed me that she likes to manipulate people to get what she wants...
The more time we spent in the hospital and as the results starting coming back I soon felt like this had all been a big charade for attention. There was nothing wrong with her. Sure, maybe a little dehydrated, but I doubt it.
I get things squared away with the insurance and she is discharged. But before that she had told me, "all I want to do is see the fireworks..." So I ask the nurse if she is ok to go back into the parks as long as she remains in a wheelchair. He said that's fine. Soon, our ride arrives and they take me back to the hotel and she is taken back to the park.
In the meantime, Sarah had brought my lunch to our room and I ravenously ate it while I waited for my phone to charge a little. I was so hungry. I texted her and soon she and Josh were back at the hotel and we swapped stories.
You may remember our good friend, Blister. Well Matt had been nice enough to take her to meet Anna and Elsa while all of his other friends went to ride some rides. Because of the new handicap rules at the parks, Blister waited at the front of the line, whole Matt had to wait in the line... For two and a half hours. All while, unknowingly, Josh and Sarah are watching the scene unfold. Blister gets up and moves around, Blister tries to get peek inside Blister makes a cast member move her into the shade... Finally they emerge and Matt come out first with Blister wheeling herself behind. The moment Matt sees Sarah and Josh, a look of relief washes over his face and they tell him to go find his friends. He takes off and Sarah tells Blister, it's time to ditch the chair. (I may have to have write the account here instead of me, I just can't do it justice).
This is where I insert my portion of the story...
After Josh and I finished lunch with Mark and Robin we decided to walk back to the hotel to wait to hear from Kjersti.  Right as we arrived at the hotel I got a text from Kjersti saying that Matt was requesting we come rescue him and take Blister.  Josh and I walked back to the park and found Matt standing in the line to meet Ana and Elsa chatting with some lovely young ladies.  We got his attention and asked where Blister was.  He told us that she was in her wheelchair at the front of the line waiting.  We asked him if he wanted to go and he said he was ok to wait.  Josh and I then found the exit to the meet and greet and waited.  We watched Blister sitting in her chair in the sun, occasionally getting up to peek in the door.  Eventually she had a castmember move her into the shade.  Josh and I waited for over an hour and a half.  Poor Matt!  What high school boy wants to wait that long to meet Disney Princesses.  We later found out that he had waited over 2 hours with Blister.  Gold star Matt, gold star!  We finally saw Matt coming out the exit in front of Blister, she was having to push her own wheelchair.  Now, I know this is horrible, but I laughed.  She had blisters....  BLISTERS!  We've all had blisters!  We've all survived blisters!  She was in a wheelchair because of blisters!  I was all sorts of fed up by this point.  Matt approached us with this look of total relief on his face.  He didn't say anything to us, and all I said to him was, "Please go find your friends."  He didn't question me one bit, just quickly walked (almost ran) away.  Blister wheeled up watching after Matt and I stopped her.  Counselor Sarah kicked in and I knew it was time for some tough love, "Blister, can you tell that everyone is tired of pushing you around in that chair?"  Head nod.  "Can you tell that no one is having fun?"  Head nod.  "Then it's time for you to get rid of that chair."  I informed her that she had blisters and would survive, and that Ms. Parkes was in the emergency room with someone with issues worse than blisters (probably not entirely true).  Josh and I then followed Blister as she pushed herself toward the wheelchair rental place (nope, we did not push her) and waited for her to turn in the chair.  She came and sat back down and I asked where her friends were and made her text the girl she'd been hanging out with.  Of course no one responded, they didn't want to have to push a wheelchair!  Then as Josh and I were chatting and both of us desparately trying to come up with a solution in our heads, Blister began to cry.  OH MY!  Yep, I was not my best self and just kept chatting with Josh.  We had informed Blister that it was not appropriate for 2 adults to be alone with 1 student and therefore she needed to find her friends.  Meanwhile I'm silently praying, "Please let some students walk by!"  Not even lying, minutes later a huge group of our students walks out of the gates!  All Josh and I did was look at each other and he jumped up to catch them and ask if Blister could join them.  I turned to Blister and said, "You need to stop crying right now.  Take deep breaths.  These students are willing to hang out with you.  You love Disneyland, you love the fireworks and the rides.  You don't want to miss is.  So, you are going to stop crying right now and go with these kids and enjoy your last night in Disneyland." No soft and cuddly counselor business!  Josh, in all his wisdom, was able to distract this group long enough for me to get Blister calmed down and in the standing position.  As soon as she was with them we took off back to the hotel.  Kjersti was back!
 
Back to Kjersti:
So, back to that evening, I couldn't believe the afternoon I'd had. We then went back to the parks- watched World of Color and then we stayed out late so I could ride a few rides. But, this time, of course, was not without incident. After the show, we receive a text asking josh to give her a priesthood blessing, he declines a) because it would be inappropriate for a teacher to do that and b)he was ticked off at Fainter. He suggests they ask one of the Dads that was there on vacation. Soon I receive a text telling me she has passed out again. I call her friend and find out she's in her too. And I instruct her friend to have everyone leave her alone. SHE IS FINE I JUST SPENT SIX HOURS IN THE ER WITH HER, SHE IS FINE!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
 

We met up with 2 of the cutest high school students you've ever met on Tuesday night.  Mark wasn't feeling well and texted Kjersti telling us that we could give away their World of Color tickets.  We found Danielle and Tanner and they joined us for our evening of fun and rebellion.




 After World of Color the 3 adults in the group decided that we had a bad day and just wanted to ride the rides dangit!  So, that's what we were going to do and we were dragging Danielle and Tanner down with us! 
Our next stop:  Space Mountain!

 We practiced our poses beforehand.  MOST PAINFUL POSES EVER!  And yet so worth it!  Awesome!

It was a trip we will never forget.  It was a day we will never forget.  And yet the last 2 hours, even though we were very late for curfew were the best 2 hours of the entire trip!
 
Roll the credits.......

Friday, June 20, 2014

The Husband Delivers!



March 18, 2014 I got home from work and there were 2 dozen roses, a container of chocolate macadamia nuts, and the sweetest note from Travis.  He sure knows how to make a girl feel better!

Sunday, April 13, 2014

"I Love You a Bushel and a Peck!"

 Thursday March 13, 2014 my very favorite person in the whole wide world left this life to rejoin my beautiful grandmother.  He has now been gone for one month and I think of him every single day.

I wish there was an eloquent way for me to describe my grandpa and the relationship we have.  He loves me unconditionally and has always wanted me to be completely happy.  I have never doubted Grandpa's love. 

Grandpa had a song and/or saying for absolutely everything.  While I was waiting for a missionary I often heard him reciting "To The Girls We Left Behind."  All through high school I was told, "You can't soar with the eagles all day if you hoot with the owls all night."  Grandpa taught be all the swears I know and he was the ultimate example of stubbornness... "I would rather have my butt rubbed with a brick!"  "It's as cold as a mother-in-law's kiss!"  "One of my teachers told me that I was so stubborn if I fell in the river she would look for me upstream."

Besides silly sayings and grumpiness (thus earning him the nickname among the grandkids of "Grumps") he also taught me important life lessons.  Grandpa taught be about generosity, and he often showed me this quietly and not wanting recognition.  Grandpa taught me the importance of hard work.  He never shied away from a challenge or something that might be difficult.  He provided for his family by building homes.  He had a great reputation of a master builder and someone who was reliable and trustworthy.  Grandpa loved his garden and it was a source of pride for him.  No matter the temperature he was faithful in tending to his garden and found great joy in sharing the fruits of his labors.

Grandpa often appeared gruff and grumpy, however he had the kindest heart.  He and Grandma bickered like no one I've ever seen, but he loves her so much.  He was completely devoted to their marriage and to her.  The last few years of Grandma's life you would almost always find Grandpa sitting by her side holding her hand.  He would drive to the care center to visit her at least twice a day and nothing would stand in his way.  His heart was completely broken when she passed 2 years ago.  Along with Grandma, Grandpa was also completely devoted to his children and grandchildren.  Traditions were so important to him.  We would decorate sugar cookies for Valentines' Day.  We would dye Easter eggs for Easter and then on Easter Sunday we would have an Easter egg hunt.  He would stand on the back porch and bellow at us, "Don't you dare go in those bushes!"  "Don't step one foot in my garden!"  We were all convinced every year there were eggs in the bushes and garden and he was furious when we would get even near them.  Eventually it turned into the grandkids tormenting the poor man standing at the edge of the garden with one foot hanging over the dirt staring right at him waiting for him to start yelling.  We visited the graves of those who had passed on before us each Memorial Day and Grandpa spent time tenderly cleaning each headstone.  Thanksgiving was always a huge production and you had better show up hungry!  I got to spend a couple years making pies with Grandpa and learning his tricks.  Christmas was the ultimate tradition and I know that will continue with my parents.  Grandpa made peanut brittle, English toffee, pink popcorn, bread, pies, sourdough pancakes, and clam chowder every year.  I was blessed enough to spend two Christmas seasons baking with Grandpa and he will live on as I continue to create his delicious Christmas traditions.

Grandpa was so special to me.  We had a very unique relationship.  My cousins and siblings probably feel the same way about Grandpa, which is part of what makes him so very special.  We each truly believe that Grandpa loved us the most.  So, my perspective may be a little biased, but that's what we're going to go with tonight.  I was Grandpa's favorite.  I have always loved being around him.  One of my most special memories of Grandpa came at the very lowest point of my life.  Most of you know my history and about my Tyler.  The night of Tyler's accident Grandma Shirley made Aunt Robyn drive her to my house so she could be with me.  Despite my utter heartbreak I remember asking Grandma, "Where's Grandpa?"  Grandma's response made me love Grandpa even more, "He didn't want to see you so sad and he didn't know what to say."  Two nights later I needed to see Grandpa.  I just needed him.  I asked my parents if they would take me to see him and they quickly agreed to.  I found Grandpa in his living room on the couch.  He stood and gave me a Grandpa George hug, sat me on the couch and just held my hand.  That's all I needed.  He kept a tight grip on my hand the entire evening.  Neither one of us left the couch our whole visit.  From that moment on Grandpa always held my hand when he saw me.  He wanted to protect me.  He wanted me to be happy.  He hated when I was sad.  A few years later Grandpa decided it was time for me to date and did everything in his power to set me up with a young man he had heard about.  Unlucky for him his stubbornness had rubbed off on me and I created my requirement list.  That was the only time I bested him. :)  When Travis and I got engaged I begged Grandpa stay around long enough to be in the temple when we were sealed.  He was there in the front row.  It made me so happy to have him so near and to see his face next to mine as we looked in the mirrors in the Sealing Room.  A moment I will never ever forget!

I just have so very many memories of Grandpa, too many to put here.  Mostly I want each of you to know that this world has lost one of it's greatest men.  I know when I see him again he will be standing hand-in-hand with Grandma waiting anxiously to give me a hug and a kiss (because I am his favorite).  I love him.  I miss him.  I realize how blessed I am to have spent a few of the last hours of his life with him and to tell him I love him. 

"You are my sunshine,
My only sunshine.
You make me happy
When skies are gray.
You'll never know dear,
How much I love you.
Please don't take my sunshine away."








Grandpa served in the Merchant Marines and then in the Military Police in Japan.  It  was so touching to watch the Honor Guard honor Grandpa at his graveside service.  Grandpa was always deeply patriotic and there were multiple occasions when I witnessed him shed a tear during the Nation Anthem.
 



 This soldier pressed the flag firmly against his chest before he handed it to my mom.  I absolutely loved that.
 






 

Thursday, April 3, 2014

March 5, 2014 Episode 118 Reality Town Madness

 Wednesday March 5, 2014 was our annual Reality Town for our 8th graders.  It's always a ton of work, but so much fun!  It only works because our Comprehensive Guidance Assistant, Tina, is a ROCK STAR!!!  I seriously don't know what we would do without her.  This year was amazing and we had more volunteers than we needed.  The kids seemed to enjoy it, and the counseling center was super glad to have it come to an end.



 Valley Jr. High's counseling team is the best in Granite School District... Just sayin'!
By the time the day is half over we are completely spent, and things get a little loopy.  We learned this year that I fit comfortably in a garbage bag.  These are important things to know I guess.
 
There are days when I hate my job and never want to go back, and then there are days when I love my job and Reality Town is always one of those days.  I am so grateful for the people I work with and for the friendships we have built.  I am a very blessed individual!

Cake! Yum!



A few days after our 1 year anniversary we broke out our frozen wedding cake.  Everyone who I had talked to about this tradition said their cake tasted horrible, so I was slightly hesitant.  But, this is the layer both of us were most excited about so I didn't want to just throw it away.

Let me tell you about our wedding cake.  Dorcas Woodward made our cake for us.  This was really the only part of the wedding planning process that Travis was interested in, and I was excited to have him involved in something.  We wanted 3 offset square layers, no fondant (yuck!), and polka dots all over.  Our bottom tier was chocolate and vanilla marbled cake with chocolate ganache filling, our middle tier was almond cake with raspberry filling, and our top layer was chocolate cake with peanut butter filling.  Dorcas had never done peanut butter filling, so I sent her all of my peanut butter frosting recipes and she took it from there.  The bottom 2 tiers were delicious!  We were lucky and our reception center boxed up pieces for us so we could have more than the one bite.  However, the layer we were most excited about was boxed up and frozen, so we were anxious to give it a try.

DELICIOUS!!!  Seriously, there is nothing about my cake I would have changed, and the top tier did not disappoint.  I was so sad when we finally finished it off.  The frosting Dorcas used was amazing and the cake was awesome and the filling was exactly what we wanted.  I loved it!  Best. Wedding. Cake. EVER!