Friday August 11, 2006 the world lost 2 wonderful men and my whole world came to a halt and then shatttered around me. That was the day I lost my Handsome, Tyler Scott Elder. While 3 years have passed I still feel as though it was only yesterday. I love Tyler as much as, if not more than that day. I wish the world could have known Tyler and his wonderful heart. He had so much to share and so much to teach. Some of his most important lessons were just for me. Tyler changed my life forever. Tyler taught me many things about love, life, friendship, and myself. Tyler taught me what it was like to be loved unconditionally by someone outside of my family. It didn't matter what I did, how I looked, what stupid things I said, etc. Tyler loved me. Tyler was NEVER too proud or afraid to show his love for me. I learned to love myself from Tyler. He made me feel like I was the most important and wonderful person on the planet. I learned that I am beautiful. Tyler made sure that I always knew that I was beautiful. He called me his Beautiful and every letter I received from him while he was on his mission began that way. He talked about me with people and then was always so excited to introduce them to me. Most importantly I learned to love from Tyler. It took me longer than it took him to realize that I was in love with him, but he was willing to wait. Tyler was so patient with me and was constantly encouraging me to share my bottled-up feelings. I learned to compromise and accomplish goals while still including Tyler. I had my future planned out with him in mind. I was still able to achieve everything I had ever wanted and have him by my side. After 4 years I had given my entire heart to Tyler Scott Elder. He is my best friend. I love him with all that I am and I miss him every day.
I have faith that Heavenly Father will make everything right. He knows my heart, and he knows Tyler's heart. He knows our righteous desires and because of that he will provide.
I love you Tyler Scott!
Tyler loved his family more than anything!
Tyler's incredible testimony was a great example for me. He helped me to grow so much in the church and I know more about my Savior because I know Tyler.
Elder Elder was the best looking missionary in Brazil!
5 comments:
I remember hearing about what had happened and I ached for you. I still do. You have the perfect attitude... Heavenly Father will make things right the way he knows best.
You're amazing, Sarah! And you're right-our Heavenly Father does know our desires.
I love you and Tyler!
Sarah, you are such an amazing gal and example to me. This post just touched my heart so much. Even though I never met Tyler, I can see him in you and I look forward to the day I can meet him. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and feelings, LOVE YOU!!!
It's all true. Tyler is a great guy. But you forgot to mention how enriched his life was because he knew you. I'm glad he had a best friend--someone to talk to, be with, tease, dream about the future with, smile at him, and laugh with. He had a lot of love to give but not many takers. To accept and receive someone's love is a wonderful thing. I think of the Savior and how much joy He has when we sincerely accept and receive his atonement. Anyway, thanks for the post. -Leif
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